Friend Zone. Maybe.
This has been a while in the making. I met the South American some time ago, not on a dating related site at all. Though we did hit it off pretty quickly, exchanged pictures, fantasies, thoughts, and engaged in a fair bit of phone erotica together and that lasted some time.
Just a year ago she disappeared. She re-appeared recently, turns out she had moved to South America and got engaged and then it went bad and she has returned. I’ve been chatting with her on and off for about three months again now but have not returned to our past… Activities 🙂 I haven’t made reference to them or brought it up, nor has she.
Long story short I’ve told her I’ll be taking her out for her birthday which is this week, she mentioned a place a while back where she had always wanted to go but hasn’t yet so that is where I will I’ll be taking her. I don’t yet know what to get her for her Birthday though…
She had been after me for quite some time to meet up, but I wasn’t able to get over my usual self confidence issues, par for course. Since it appears that this is just a case of the Friend Zone this time which I’m fine with, I think I should be able to go through with this without chickening out and running in the other direction lol. Though I am still quite nervous, she is around 15 years younger than I am and of course very gorgeous. Perfect for practice maybe!
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#1 by simplysurrealblog on September 22, 2014 - 4:54 pm
Aww that’s so sweet of you to take her out to dinner. Perhaps as a birthday gift, something sentimental of something she has an interest in. But, I’m terrible at coming up with gifts so I usually give people a gift card for iTunes. If she likes art, a book about her favorite artist.
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#2 by loveworldproblems on September 22, 2014 - 5:27 pm
No those are very good suggestions 🙂 She is taking a trip soon and it involves quite a long flight, so I did think a book or two would be a great start! Though I was hesitant because last time I got a girl a book as a gift so we could go to the beach, drink wine and read, said I was too boring and kicked me to the curb lol.
Maybe friend zone is better than date zone after all haha, don’t have to worry about that there!
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#3 by simplysurrealblog on September 22, 2014 - 5:36 pm
Well just because one person didn’t like it doesn’t mean another wouldn’t like it. Since this girl has a long flight then a book is excellent choice.
You never know, maybe now its a friend zone. Maybe later it can be date zone.
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