Second Sugar Date – Strike Two

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Sugar Date #2

Well I think you can tell where I am going with this already! I’ve just returned from my second sugar date, and it didn’t go that well at all. So far, the only common denominator is myself, so I’m going to need to figure out what I’m doing wrong and put an end to that!

We caught up together at a place we both knew how to get to, and then walked by foot up to the place for lunch. I’m glad I picked it, it was one of the most impressive places I’ve ever eaten at! As impressive wasย everything else, view, menu, $$ lol, service, and company.

I got the distinct feeling on the date that she wasn’t really interested, this could be for any number of reasons, and plenty of body language to support my claim. I didn’t give up though, I tried my best to make small talk and be interesting and all but was still sure she was happy with the place and the food at least.

I may just be terribly boring really! One of the areas where I’m not like most men, I’m not completely full of shit and I don’t embellish everything I’ve ever done. I’ve done quite a bit personally actually, but I have a hard time telling the “story” and making it sound interesting. I’m just not a great salesman ๐Ÿ™‚ In any case, I think I know how this is going to go, I don’t think I will continue my journey as a SD just now. I think I have quite a bit more work to do on myself first, I’m not happy enough with me. I may return to SA as a SD later after that if I can accomplish it. I’ve priced up my home gym, and that will run me about 12k so I think that is where I’ll be spending my time and money for a while!

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  1. #1 by WasOrebabe on April 25, 2015 - 12:54 pm

    Hey, it’s best to do what feels comfortable for you. I’m all up for exercise if you enjoy it and it will definitely boost your endorphin’s and give you highs. Just do it for you and were you see your self going. You sound like a lovely person, who is self aware, just don’t give up on meeting someone SB or otherwise.. x

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    • #2 by loveworldproblems on April 25, 2015 - 1:04 pm

      I do enjoy it, I have to be careful due to some issues I’ve got and am dealing through but getting healthy has been great. That’s why I’ve started slow with Pilates, baby steps ๐Ÿ™‚

      Thank you, I won’t give up, maybe just delay for a bit! haha.

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  2. #3 by WasOrebabe on April 25, 2015 - 1:20 pm

    Great.. x

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  3. #4 by WasOrebabe on April 25, 2015 - 1:22 pm

    I do Pilates and yoga regularly and would certainly recommend them. P.s its great for mastering various flexible positions ๐Ÿ˜‰

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  4. #5 by sugarchai on April 25, 2015 - 3:20 pm

    I think you can always find a SB for you, but it takes a lot of sifting. Have you been reading our blogs?? Lol how many SDs do we go through? It seems like a blessing that these relationships are based on ‘getting exactly what you want’ but when that changes weekly or when you don’t know what you want it can be really stupidly hard. Key is finding someone who understands that, too. But anyway, don’t give up just yet. It’s kind of fun and you never know who you will meet.

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    • #6 by nakedintheroom on April 26, 2015 - 12:28 am

      I still dont understand the point of SD/SB relationships. U pay a girl $300 or something to have dinner with u? Not to fuck u? Isnt that just an escort? Wats the difference between an escort or hooker to a sugar baby??

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      • #7 by sugarluvin on April 26, 2015 - 12:42 am

        people have sb/sd relationships (key word “relationship”) to have that connection with someone.For the guy, it’s a power/dominance thing to have a hot trophy on their arm and to be able to provide for her. It’s kind of like how rich guys have hot housewives. I think it’s a macho thing. For women, obviously it’s nice to get wined and dined and taken care of. I’m actually really sexually attracted to being submissive to a dominant man. It’s the middle ground between escort and girlfriend, really. It’s an actual relationship experience type of thing. Does that make sense?

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        • #8 by nakedintheroom on April 26, 2015 - 5:27 am

          Yeah cool! Thanks for sharing! Do u have sex with ur sugar daddy??

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      • #9 by sugarchai on April 26, 2015 - 12:43 am

        Sugar relationships are *supposed* to be about spoiling each other, along with absolute honesty and NSA- they are considered mutually beneficial- it’s not just a guy paying a girl to have sex or for a specific allotted time. A lot of sugar relationships the couples spend time together without payment. That’s really the difference (not much, you can see.) But the relationships are also more intimate- SD/SB usually know about personal details, get more involved… Etc. Not sure if I’m explaining this very well. Basically there is just more contact & interaction with SD/SB relationships.

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      • #11 by sugarluvin on April 26, 2015 - 1:54 am

        Yea I agree with sugarchai. There’s an intimate aspect to sugar relationships and you get to know the person. Escorting is more about the sexual aspect of it. similar but different

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      • #13 by loveworldproblems on April 26, 2015 - 8:25 am

        Every relationship is different, because every pair of people are different. Give and take, depending on who wants what!

        For me specifically, no it isn’t about sex. I don’t go on dates normally, can’t get them for a number of reasons. So sugar dating has provided me with two dates in one week already, which is more than I’ve had in the previous 5 years so that gives you an idea of where I am coming from.

        It is true, the two women I’ve taken out this week would normally have had nothing to do with me. If I could help someone out of a financial hole or pay their tuition so that I can go out with them for dinners, drinks, events then I’m more than happy to help out. If something intimate developed, I most probably would be happy about that as long as I thought it was coming from a genuine place from the both of us. But there was no way I was ever going to just jump on one of my SB’s because I wouldn’t will that on my worst enemy at this point haha.

        NSA is a large part of it for me too, I’m travelling constantly and I really don’t like to be made to feel like crap because I am out of state for a week or two and can’t see someone due to doing my job well ๐Ÿ™‚

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    • #14 by loveworldproblems on April 26, 2015 - 8:28 am

      Haha, yeah I have been reading up ๐Ÿ™‚ It isn’t exactly the fact that I’m not getting what I want either or through any fault of them; seems like I may just need to be a bit more comfortable with myself.

      I need more confidence! I thought maybe this was going to give me some, but I’m not so sure it has ๐Ÿ™‚

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